Are You The One? | Anas Munira

And no I don't mean Mr. or Mrs. Right.
I mean that toxic person or the villian in someone's story.
The ex the other person wants nothing to do with or yet still the person someone is loving from a distance.
We are always focused on what others do to us and who we should cut off that I wonder, do we ever stop to think of the kind of roles we play or have played in the lives of others.
I get it we absolutely have to protect our energy and be careful of who we allow into our space but in the spirit of practicing self love and putting ourselves first let us also be careful of the kind of energy we bring into people's lives.
In as much as we protect ourselves let us also spread love into the lives of the people we meet.
Let us try as much as possible to give positive vibes to the people we encounter.
Let our relationship with others be full of love and light.
As we strive to be the best possible versions of ourselves, let that include our interactions with others.
Today I want us to begin to question ourselves. To question the kind of roles we play in the lives of others, the kind of energy we bring.
What kind of impact did we leave?
Are we the villian in their story?
Where we the terrible ex?
Are we that friend they are better off without?
Now this is not to say we can all be Angels. Yes sometimes we just don't connect with people and that's perfectly fine. It doesn't mean we are terrible people, we just didn't fit in their lives. I'm talking about being conscious of the kind of people we want to be and the kind of effect we want to have in each other's lives. I'm talking about putting in that effort to build the kind of world we want to be in.
Change really starts with each and everyone of us and so as we complain about the amount of hate in the world let's also be agents of love. Till next time sending y'all nothing but good vibes.

                                                   Love, Neera.